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“(Do) not fall into the rut of “exercising for your health”. Wallace Wattles wrote these words over 100 years ago. In many ways he was way ahead of his time. (His writings were the basis for “The Secret”.) He goes on to say, “Everyone is the better for a little all round use of the muscles every day; and the best way to this is by engaging in some form of play or amusements. Get your exercise in the natural way; as recreation not as a forced stunt for health’s sake alone. Ride a horse or a bicycle; play tennis or ten pins or toss a ball. Have some avocation like gardening in which you can spend an hour every day with pleasure and profit, there are thousands of ways in which you can get exercise enough to keep your body supple and your circulation good, and yet not all into the rut of “exercising for your health”. Exercise for fun or profit; exercise because you are too healthy to sit still, and not because you wish to become healthy or to remain so.”
Is this philosophy still valid? When this was written
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, people where much more active in their daily lives. We need to make a more conscious effort to remain active but there is a lot we can apply to our lives today.
We are constantly bombarded with the latest fitness trend that is a “must” to do to get in shape. How many programs have you gone on and quit? How much money have you spent on the latest gadget, class or DVD? I shudder to think how much money I’ve spent.
As a personal trainer, I’m constantly asked, “What’s the best exercise?” and my answer is “the one you’ll do.” If you don’t enjoy an exercise program, you probably won’t stick with it. I’ve spent endless hours at the gym trudging away on the treadmill and other equipment because “it was good for me” and cranked up the speed because intervals burn more fat—and hated every minute of it. Training for a half marathon a couple of years ago, I realized I enjoy walking and running outside. Some days it’s a long walk, some a steady jog, and at times I enjoy challenging myself to see how fast I can run to the next light pole (A fun and challenging way to do intervals.)
I don’t enjoy group exercise classes but love lifting weights and seeing my body become stronger and more toned. Zumba may be your thing, or maybe you’ve always loved to dance but not in a crowd. Crank up the music at home and dance for a great workout. If you hate the gym, maybe you would enjoy working with a trainer at a private studio. You may enjoy solitary activity or need the camaraderie of a group or exercise buddy.
Until you try a new activity you won’t know if you enjoy it. It may take a while, but if you give it a chance, you never know what will be fun. Don’t be afraid to get totally out of your comfort zone. I tried boxing and realized I love putting on the gloves and punching the heavy bag. My technique isn’t great but I have fun and get a terrific workout, (and seeing the reaction of the guys at the gym when they seem me with my boxing gloves adds to the fun!)
If you go into exercise with the mindset of “I have to do this because it’s good for me”, you probably won’t stick with it very long. On the other hand, if you’re having fun, you’re more likely to keep it up. No matter what your personality, fitness level or ability, there is an activity you can enjoy. Don’t be afraid to try something new and have fun.
There is the campaign for kids to “Play 60 minutes a day”. This should apply to adults as well. If we would play 60 minutes a day, we would be healthier, fitter and happier; not to mention have less stress. Go play—have fun!
My birthday is always a time of reflection. Once again we had my annual birthday blizzard–February 1. This year I officially became a senior citizen, 62. Do I mind that milestone? Not really. I agree with Betty Friedan “Aging is not lost youth but a new state of opportunity and strength.”
Looking back over the years, I am in better shape now than I was 20+ years ago and much stronger. At forty, like a lot of people, I thought that disease and disability were just a natural part of aging. I was overweight, out-of-shape and had difficulty climbing stairs. I thought it was all downhill—especially when menopause hit.
I thought joining a gym might help. It turned out to be one of the best decisions I ever made. I learned the importance of building strength—and it not only changed my body, it changed my life.
At forty, when I joined the gym, I could do twelve girl’s pushups. At sixty, I did sixty-five.
At forty, I could barely walk because of the arthritis in my knees. At sixty, I ran a half marathon.
At fifty, I become a personal trainer after years of being an administrative assistant.
At forty, I was working for retirement. Now
, at sixty-two, retirement is the farthest thing from my mind. I have started writing and speaking to spread the message of strength. I am no longer working for retirement—I’m working for the next opportunity and adventure.
It’s never too late to begin. No matter if your forty, sixty or eighty, building strength is the best way to take charge and change the way you age and improve the quality of your life.
My New Year’s Resolution is to stop “shoulding” all over myself. This time of year we are inundated with a long list of shoulds.
I should lose weight
I should exercise more
I should eat healthier
I should get out of debt
I should be more organized
I should meditate
I should, I should, I should—the list is endless
As worthwhile as the shoulds are, the problem is that instead of looking inside to see what goals and behavior changes we are ready to make and are important to us, we listen to all of the “shoulds” which then leads to self-defeating guilt.
Most resolutions are made to change a behavior or to reach a goal. Any resolution that involves making a decision about future behavior is a waste of time. We don’t live in the future. We live one day at a time—one choice at a time.
This year I resolve to live in the moment—to stop putting life on hold until I’ve accomplished my “shoulds.” Are there behaviors I plan to change and goals I will reach? Absolutely. What makes this year different is:
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, family or friends) says is irrelevant.
Habits are only changed by practicing new behaviors and goals are reached by the choices made—one day at a time—one moment at a time. Will I make some bad decisions and poor choices? Of course–no one is perfect. But I realize that they were what I chose to do in that moment and it is my responsibility to make better decisions and choices in this moment.
This year, I will enjoy the moments and stop “shoulding” all over myself.
This time of year we have a tendency to overindulge. You will read lots of hints of how to stay on your diet–eat only turkey and vegetables
, etc, etc. How boring! I love stuffing and pumpkin pie. Thanksgiving without those treats would be depressing. You CAN enjoy the foods you love at Thanksgiving without blowing your diet or “cheating”. Here are a few strategies I’ve found that work:1. Enjoy the foods you REALLY love. Don’t feel like you have to try a “little of everything”. I’m not going to waste calories on foods I don’t absolutely love.
Let’s not forget why we celebrate. Be thankful for good food, family and friends. Gratitude and guilt are incompatible. May you have a wonderful Thanksgiving!
“What’s your five year plan,” the doctor asked Helen.
“What do you mean, my five year plan, I’m 80.”
“Everyone needs a five year plan. I think you need to start strength training.”
“WHAT! I’m 80!”
“No excuses–let’s find you a trainer.”
That’s how I came to do strength training with 80-year-old Helen. Helen had accepted that frailty, disease and disability were a natural part of the aging process, but Helen had a can-do attitude and was willing to give it a try. I came to love and admire Helen’s spirit. Helen and her husband traveled the world. She had gotten to the point that if there were stairs on a tour, she would sit on a bench and wait for the others and bypass the cathedral or whatever site was on the agenda. It was a shame she had to always be on the sidelines because of the limitations of her body.
Helen had also given up going places by herself because if there were stairs
, she wasn’t able to manage them. As Helen became stronger, she lost her fear of going places by herself and became much more independent.
After strength training for two years, Helen slipped and fell and broke her hip. The doctors were amazed how much muscle she had in her hips and legs. In fact, they said any other 82 year old would probably be dead from such a fall. But Helen was a warrior—when life knocked her down, she got right back up.
Helen called me one day very upset. “They kicked me out of therapy,” she said. “What do you mean–they kicked you out of therapy?” I replied. “The doctor approved me for twenty sessions and they kicked me out after only two sessions. They said I met all the criteria of activity for an average 82-year-old.” I had to laugh, “Well, Helen, they don’t understand that you’re not the average 82-year-old.”
When Helen was 84, she and I and two of my friends went and stayed at a villa in the south of France. There was no more sitting on the sidelines for Helen on this trip! She kept right up with the rest of us, even though we were all a good 30 years younger.
“Thank you,” Helen said at the end of our trip, “I never thought I could have so much fun again at my age.”
No, Helen, thank you. You proved that even at the age of 80, a warrior doesn’t give up.
At 85, the doctor once again asked, “OK, Helen, what’s your five year plan?”
Everyone needs a five year plan—what’s yours?
The streets of San Francisco make working out easy. Visiting my daughter last week made me realize that where we live can have a huge impact on our fitness level.
A few month ago I bought the BodyMedia Fitness Tracker. It has been a great tool. Researching the different trackers available, I opted for the BodyMedia because it is the most scientifically accurate one on the market. When I first started wearing it, I was shocked at how few calories I actually used even working out and making an effort to be active. Unfortunately
, I live in a city that is not pedestrian friendly and jumping in the car to run errands has become a habit.
Wearing my BodyMedia in San Francisco, I was amazed at how many more calories I burned just going around the city. I wasn’t trying to workout but walking everywhere I went, up and down the hilly streets, on and off the train, using the stairs at the Muni and staying in Mandy’s third floor walkup made it easy.
If, like me, you live in a “car city”, getting enough activity takes a concerted effort.
I’m often asked can frail elderly people really get strong again and how old is too old to start a strength training program. A study* of people over the age of 90 who where put on a strength training program had the following results. They:
The amazing thing is that these results were accomplished in just 14 weeks of strength training working out only 15-20 minutes twice per week. The exercises consisted of a five-machine Nautilus program and each exercise was performed for one set of 8 to 12 repetitions to the point of moderate muscle fatigue. When 12 repetitions were completed in good form (slow movement speed and full movement range), the weightload was increased by about five percent.
Avoid the pitfalls of becoming frail and elderly by starting a strength training program today. But remember, even after 90, it’s never to late to get strong.
*Wayne L. Westcott
, Ph.D., C.S.C.S, is Fitness Research Director at the South Shore YMCA in Quincy, MA.
Are you a diet-oholic? There are strategies that we can implement to help us overcome the “Diet Addiction”.
1. Eat mindfully. Be aware of what you are eating and make each selection you “choice”. Don’t beat yourself up if some days the selection is better than others. Aim to eat healthfully 75% of the time. Take responsibility that the choice is always up to you.
2. Learn what healthy eating really is. Eat a variety of fresh
, real food.
3. Eat real food. If you can’t pronounce it, don’t eat it. The best food choices don’t have a label. Our bodies are made to use food, not chemicals. I read the ingredient label first. If the label takes up half the package, it probably has a lot of junk in it.
4. Never eat anything with the word “diet” on the label. This is another way of saying this product is loaded with crap. I recently saw “Diet Water” on the store shelf. As opposed to high calorie regular water? Reading the label, I found that it was loaded with artificial sweetener, artificial flavor and other chemicals.
5. Never eliminate a food group from you diet. Fat, protein and carbohydrates are called “essential nutrients” because they are all essential for good health. Any diet that eliminates or extremely restricts any one of these groups is not a healthy diet.
6. Don’t make anything off limits. If you’re like me, if someone tells me I can’t have something, I want it all the more. Give yourself permission to have the occasional treat and you will be surprised the cravings aren’t nearly as great.
7. And the hardest one of all–don’t read the latest diet book from this weeks popular guru or turn on the TV when the newest “miracle” weight loss plan is announced. You will only receive conflicting information, mis-information and end up more confused in the long run.
Food is to nourish our bodies, repair our cells, give us energy and most of all it is to be enjoyed. If we can ignore the media and eliminate the “diet brain”, we will all be healthier and much happier.
Are you addicted to diets? Are you always looking for the next “miracle”? Here are 7 symptoms that you may be a diet-aholic.
1. You find yourself turning on Dr. Oz or other shows whenever the latest diet is featured or the newest diet/fitness guru is the guest.
2. You pick up the magazines at the checkout that feature “lose weight fast” articles.
3. Your bookshelf if overflowing with a collection of diet books–most of which have never been used because there is always a new once coming out.
4. When you go on amazon.com it defaults to the diet section.
5. You have a collection of supplements on the shelf promising to “melt fat”. (If you could really “melt” fat
, it seems like we’d all be standing in a puddle of melted lard.)
6. You know all the lingo–no fat, low-fat, no carb, low carb. high protein, glutton free and have tried most.
7. You find yourself gravitating to items on the grocery store shelf with the “diet” on the label. ( I recently saw “Diet Water”. Since regular water has so many calories.)
Coming soon–7 Strategies for Overcoming being a Diet-aholicism
I spent the weekend moving boxes and furniture up a flight of stairs. Since I stay active, run and am up and down stairs all day, I was unprepared for the pain I felt in my knees that night? What happened? Then it dawned on my I had been carrying a lot of extra weight. What does carrying just a few extra pounds do to your joints? A recent study showed that one pound of excess weight equals four pounds of stress on the knees. Even though I was carrying the excess weight for a short period of time I realized:
No wonder my knees hurt!
Losing a few pounds can go a long way toward reducing the pressure on your knees — and protecting them. In one study, the risk of developing osteoarthritis dropped 50% with each 11-pound weight loss among younger obese women. For men who get their body mass index (BMI) down from 30 or higher to between 25 and 29.9
, knee osteoarthritis would decrease an estimated 20%. A similar change in women of the same age could cut the incidence of osteoarthritis of the knee by about 30%.
Research shows accumulated reduction in knee load for a 1-pound loss in weight would be more than 4,800 pounds per mile walked,” writes researcher Stephen P. Messier, PhD, of Wake Forest University in the July issue of Arthritis & Rheumatism. “For people losing 10 pounds, each knee would be subjected to 48,000 pounds less in compressive load per mile walked.”
Lighten up to lessen your joint pain.