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Recently, I had my second DEXA scan. For years, I relied on the scale to gauge my progress, which was both inaccurate and frustrating. The number on the scale tells only a very small part of the story.
What I learned from my DEXA scan was encouraging. Even though my weight isn’t where I would like it to be yet, the exercise I’ve done consistently over the years is paying off.
My lean mass—my muscle—is in a very healthy range for my age. My visceral fat, the fat stored around the organs that is associated with increased health risks, is very low. Those are numbers worth celebrating.
Bone density is an essential number for women to know. Having been diagnosed with borderline osteoporosis, maintaining my bone density is especially important to me. And at only 5’2″, I definitely don’t want to shrink—a reality many older women face as they lose bone mass and height.
I witnessed the devastating effects osteoporosis had on my mother’s life and health. So when I was diagnosed, I made a decision: I would do whatever I could to keep my bones strong and healthy. So far, my bone density is holding steady. That’s a number I’m proud of.
Then there’s the number that frustrates me: my subcutaneous fat—the fat that sits just beneath the skin. There’s more of it than I would like. I don’t particularly enjoy the jiggly parts, but unlike visceral fat, subcutaneous fat isn’t generally considered the same kind of health risk. Genetics and menopause play a significant role in it’s accumulation.
I once had a doctor tell me, “Fat thighs never killed anyone.”
What a relief.
But here’s the really good news. Instead of constantly wondering whether I should try the latest, greatest diet, I now have information specific to my body and my goals.
I remember the first time someone called me “ma’am” with that tone. Not the respectful kind. The dismissive kind—the tone that quietly filed me under no longer relevant and moved on.
I remember catching my reflection in a store window and feeling genuinely startled by the woman looking back at me.
Where did she come from? When did that happen?
I remember the exact moment I realized I had become invisible in certain rooms. That my voice seemed to carry less weight than it used to. That younger people sometimes looked past me, as if I had nothing left worth hearing.
I remember the sting of it.
We were taught that aging is something to fight, hide, or apologize for. We absorbed this without ever agreeing to it. Nobody sat us down and said the words directly, but we learned them anyway: there would come a time when we’d need to step back. Make room. Fade gracefully into the background.
The subtext was always the same. A woman’s worth is tied to how she looks, how she serves, and how comfortable she makes everyone else feel. That worth diminishes as youth fades. Power dims along with fertility. You become less visible, less relevant, less necessary as the years accumulate.
We’re told to be grateful for whatever attention remains. And once you’re older? Try not to be too much of anything.
Too loud.
Too visible.
Too demanding.
Too sexual.
Too angry.
Too present.
Just… less.
Days have a way of filling up with all the shoulds, have-tos, and must-dos. Before we know it, our own wants and dreams get pushed to the bottom of the list.
I remember needing a permission slip for school field trips and extracurricular activities. Someone else had to say it was okay for me to go.
Today, I decided to give myself a permission slip.
The truth is, at this stage of life, no one else needs to give us permission. We can choose to make time for ourselves. We can choose joy, creativity, rest, adventure, or simply a quiet moment with a cup of coffee and our thoughts.
Today, I signed my own permission slip.
Maybe it’s time you signed yours.
You have permission…
Have you ever stopped and asked yourself, Am I fulfilling my purpose? What am I doing with my life?
Lately, those questions have been on my mind.
I’ve realized that “I’ll do it someday” is no longer an option. None of us is guaranteed tomorrow. If there’s one lesson age has taught me, it’s that time is precious, and the life we want isn’t waiting somewhere in the future. It’s created by the choices we make today.
But I also know this: my story isn’t over. My dreams still matter, my purpose still matters, and the next chapter is mine to write.
So perhaps the better question isn’t, What am I doing with my life? Perhaps it’s, Who am I becoming?
I want to become a woman who is confident in herself. A woman who no longer waits for the “right time” or tells herself, I’ll do it tomorrow.
I want to trust my own voice, honor the commitments I make to myself, and embrace new challenges with courage instead of hesitation.
I no longer want to wait for permission to live fully.
I’ve earned every wrinkle, every scar, every lesson. My age isn’t a limitation; it’s proof of everything I’ve overcome—and a reminder that I still have so much to give.
So today, I choose:
Action over excuses.
Progress over perfection.
Purpose over fear.
Every morning is another opportunity to begin again.
The woman I am becoming isn’t waiting for life to happen.
She is creating it—one intentional day at a time.
I hope you’ll join me.
Who are you becoming? I’d love to hear your thoughts. Reply below and tell me one thing you’re choosing today that your future self will thank you for.
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Aging isn’t about slowing down; rather, it’s about growing into our fullest and most vibrant selves. It’s not about fighting time—it’s about flowing with it.
Moving for Life
Being physically confident is essential. Fitness is no longer about fitting into a certain size or chasing a number on the scale. The goal as we age is to stay strong, balanced, and capable—ready for the life you want to live. Functional fitness incorporates exercises that support real-life movements—to be able to climb a flight of stairs, garden, play with the grandkids, or travel with confidence. Activities like walking, yoga, tai chi, and strength training to build muscles also build independence and self-trust. It becomes a celebration of “I can do this!”
When I was growing up, children were meant to be seen and not heard—and little girls, especially, were expected to be demure and quiet. In trying to meet those expectations, I became extremely shy and fearful. Standing up for myself and speaking out felt foreign.
It was easy to become a doormat. No matter how disrespected or mistreated I felt, I stayed silent. As I’ve grown older, I’ve come to realize that I had been living within invisible lines. Lines drawn by expectations. By roles I never consciously chose, yet somehow inherited.
One day, I asked myself: What else is possible?
And that question changed everything. That’s when I learned women must ACT—with audacity, courage, and tenacity.
A — Audacity
C — Courage
T — Tenacity
“There is no passion to be found playing small – in settling for a life that is less than the one you are capable of living. “Nelson Mandela.
It’s time to write the next chapter.
For years, we’ve been told what this chapter of our lives should look like. Culture whispers that it’s about slowing down.
Birthdays invite reflection. I recently turned 73 and took a hard look at what I want this next chapter to hold. I’m far from finished. I refuse to fade away.
Instead of asking, “What do others need from me?” it’s time to ask, “What do I want to do with the years I have left?”
That question changes everything.
As I begin writing this next chapter, I must decide how boldly I’ll write it. At this age, something shifts. The outside voices grow quieter. The inner voice grows stronger. This is not a winding down; it’s a claiming of power.
It’s time to:
Train for strength.
Pursue the postponed dream.
Deepen my circle.
Speak the truth I once swallowed.
Take the trip.
Build something new.
Change the Narrative
It’s time to rewrite the story of aging. It’s frustrating to hear people in their 70s described as “elderly.” I don’t feel “elderly.” Aging should be celebrated as a journey of becoming. Each year offers new opportunities for growth, contribution, and fulfillment—a new rhythm to embrace.
Defy the limitations society places on you. Forget the labels, stereotypes, and preconceived notions of what aging “should” look like. This is your time to write your own narrative, to boldly pursue the life you’ve always dreamed of. Aging gives us the wisdom to recognize what truly matters and the courage to align our lives accordingly.
Stay Balanced
Aging teaches us how to adapt—physically, emotionally, and spiritually. It invites us to stay present, feel deeply, and embrace our evolving selves. By listening more intently to our intuition, we can move in harmony with our changing lives.
We learn to steady ourselves through life’s challenges, build resilience in the face of loss, and keep moving forward, even when time feels fleeting. Life’s balance lies in our ability to grow while staying rooted in the present.
Stay Authentic
Aging is rarely perfect, and that’s where its beauty lies. Accept the missteps, the aches, and the slower movements—they’re all part of the story. Grace comes from surrendering to the flow of life. Authenticity blooms when we stop pretending to be invincible.
Vulnerability is not a weakness; it’s a strength—the courage to be seen, to feel, and to respond to life’s moments. Let go of the masks you’ve worn, shed old expectations, and embrace the freedom to be unapologetically yourself. There’s power in imperfection and beauty in being real.
Stay Joyful
Joy in aging isn’t always loud or extravagant. It often whispers through the freedom to say no, the wisdom to know what matters, and the peace of self-acceptance. Joy lives in the laugh lines we’ve earned, the beliefs that anchor us, and the relationships that uplift us.
Seek joy in the small, everyday moments—a sunrise, a meaningful conversation, or the satisfaction of learning something new. Embrace the transformation of aging and find joy in its changing rhythms. Celebrate each moment with gratitude and wonder, and you’ll discover joy is everywhere you look.
Stay Purposeful
Purpose doesn’t diminish with age; it evolves. Aging with purpose means living intentionally and embracing each chapter of your journey. It’s about focusing on the wisdom you’ve gained, the passions still to be pursued, and the difference you can still make.
Your impact doesn’t end—it grows with you. By living purposefully, you inspire others to do the same. Celebrate resilience and wholeheartedly embrace the richness of life. With purpose, every stage of life becomes an opportunity for meaning and fulfillment.
Stay Passionate
Aging with passion means living with energy, creativity, and a deep sense of fulfillment. It’s not about clinging to youth; it’s about carrying the fire of curiosity and enthusiasm into every stage of life. Passion fuels our dreams, keeps us exploring, and inspires us to continue contributing, no matter our age.
Passion deepens as we age, bringing richness to our journey. It’s the art of living fully, loving deeply, and pursuing what sets your soul on fire. Passion is not bound by age—it evolves with you. Embrace it and let it light the way forward.
Dance Today
Today is the only day to dance. You can’t dance yesterday, and you can’t dance tomorrow. Life is lived, step-by-step at every age. Aging is about movement, adaptation, and flow. It’s a dance of grace, resilience, and of letting go. So, dance with joy, courage, and soul.
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he dance isn’t over until the final note plays. Let your movements reflect the wisdom you’ve gained, the passions you pursue, and the beauty of a life in motion. And in this dance, every step is worth celebrating.
Moving into uncharted territory can be intimidating. The unknown is often frightening. Ancient maps labeled that area “Here be Dragons”. This year, I challenge you to step off the edge of your map and look those dragons of fear in the face. Stepping out of your comfort zone into uncharted territory can feel scary and daunting, especially when life has settled into a familiar rhythm–your comfort zone. Have you mapped out your goals for 2025? How challenging will they be? Are they within your comfort zone or do they push you to grow?
Here’s the truth: Growth doesn’t have an age limit. The courage to step off the edge of comfort and into the unknown isn’t reserved for the young; it’s for the bold, the brave, and the curious—women like you.
Creative activities slow down cognitive decline, stimulate multiple areas of the brain, and keeps the brain alert. Painting, writing, crafting, cooking, gardening, and any activity that uses your creativity can enhance cognitive functions, sharpen focus, and improve critical thinking.
Creativity can be a way to express your feelings, fears, hopes, dreams, and even experiences. Emotional venting through creativity can be profoundly therapeutic.
Working on a project, no matter how big or small, gives you a sense of purpose, and completing it gives you a sense of accomplishment.
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